Category Archives: parental

Parents Matter

Often when I hear of teenagers acting up at odd times in the night or early morning, the question that immediately comes to mind is, “Where are the parents?” In the case of single parents, “Where is the parent?” Maybe guardian(s). Now I know that teens can slip out unbeknownst to parents. However, the numbers of youth that act out when they would be better off in their homes with their families does beg this question. At the same time, hats off to the parents who invest highly in their children.

Parents matter. This is borne out by research. It is often borne out by our experience in youth ministry: High parental involvement and enthusiasm for the program by parents, high involvement (not necessarily enthusiasm) by the youth.

So here, it is below, the influence of parents on behavior as it relates to safe driving. Teens having conversations with parents make a difference, but don’t stop reinforcing safe habits prematurely:

Teens who refrained from texting while driving were much more likely to report having frequent talks with their parents about safe driving. Once teenagers receive their license, there is a sharp dropoff in conversations between

This article below offers great tips on awareness, guidance, releasing, and supporting, including the all important giving teens responsibility.

What are you doing in your house, with your child, that involves leadership and community service?

Questions: How are you supporting the parents of the teens in your ministry? How can you be a resource as they seek to be more faithful parents? How are you celebrating these parents?
Loving God, Loving Neighbor
Developing Faithful Leaders for a Diverse Church and World Now and in the Future

Perspectives from the Field: Parents as Youth Sponsors

Tweens and teens are interesting as they transform from children into adults and begin to lead our church. During this process, it is important to have a variety of people to help with the church’s youth ministry, including some people that are outside of the “they care about me because they have to” world. These… Continue Reading

6 Ways Parents Can Help Kids Cope With Social Cruelty – On Parenting (

This month on Fridays our features bloggers are looking at “Parental Involvement in Youth Ministry.” The US News article that is linked below looks at how parents can help kids deal with social cruelty. It seems that those of us in youth ministry can work with parents on some of these suggestions. We also have… Continue Reading